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| I never had the chance to know Nathan but I've heard from so many people that he was a great guy! He will be greatly missed but his legend will live on forever.I am praying for the entire Seiter family and I will continue to pray for you during this difficult time. Brad, I can't believe how incredibily strong you are being during such a difficult time! I know I wouldn't be able to be half as strong as you are! I want you to know that we are all here for you if you need us! Continue to be a great basketball player because you brother will be watching you and cheering you on at every game! Make him proud! Bballplayer75 |
| I was Nathan's supervisor at DHL Express for over 2 and half years. His first night he reported to me at work, he was full of energy and ready to learn. As the weeks passed by and he learned more and more, he turned out to be one of my best employees. When ever I gave Nathan a job task, he completed it better than my expectations. Nathan had a lot of friends at DHL. He would get people in his work group to go fishing with him (and of course out fish them). He would get other employees to go play basketball on Tuesday's mornings and truly amaze them. He was well liked and respected. He will be extremely missed. I would like to offer my thoughts and prayers to Nathan, his family and also to Kim. Nathan left an everlasting impression at DHL of someone who worked hard, diligently, and smart. Nathan, I will miss you and God be with you! Chris Rudolph |
| Hey Natedogg, It is just so hard for me to believe that you are gone. I already miss you so much. One of my favorite memories of you was the very first time I met you. We were in science class and I was shy then so you came up to me. You introduced yourself and then said "but I guess you already knew that". I acted like I had no idea who you were but you knew I was lying. You looked right into my eyes and said "Farris, we're going to get along real good". We had bets from then on about when you were going to "hook" me. You are such an unbelieveable person. Your smile always lit up the room and my day. I will miss you and your wonderful hugs everytime I saw you. I love you Nate. Amy Farris |
| Nate, Words cannot express the loss I feel right now. I've started this four times and just can't seem to get through it. Little did I know that after only 17 days of my life you'd come along and change everything. You will never know how much you mean to me. You were the best big brother a girl could ever ask for. You always took care of me-through 13 years of school and then some...and sometimes that's the only thing that got me through was knowing that Nate was on my side. I cannot seem to understand why God took such a precious gift away from all of us--I feel so lost without you. I look back and cherish every memory we had growing up. We weren't the Reis' and the Seiter's--we were one big family. Dad misses you so much. It's as if he's lost a son--we all miss you so much. I wake up each day and just can't believe your gone. But I know you're up in Heaven, probably fishing by now, and you're watching over all of us. Please look after your mom, she's such a wonderful person and she didn't deserve to lose you yet either. I know your mom and dad, Justin, Jess and Brad will be fine though because they have so many wonderful memories of you to get them through. Nate, you will forever be in my heart. I'll always remember those basketball games on your court, the snakes in the creek, the homerun game in our yard and on and on and on... My heart is saddened that you won't get to teach Brady how to play the game but I'll make sure he knows who you are and how much you meant to me. I love you and will never forget you--Nate the Great Elizabeth |
| Nate, I was thinking today that the competition in heaven better step it up a notch. If they already don't know what it feels like to get beat they will soon find out. It doesn't matter what it was, you figured out a way to come out on top in the end. You were like a brother to me. Your aunt told me the other day that we were each others shadows. I still don't understand how you could watch Sportscenter six times in a row get up the next morning and watch it four more times. I was looking for some pictures for Schabell yesterday on my computer and I found a document that we typed up - it was a list of all the farm ponds we used to fish on a regular basis. I guess we quit going to all of them because it was getting too easy for us to catch the fish. When we joined the Kincaid Bassmasters we thought we knew it all. We soon found out that it was harder than we thought it was on the big bodies of water that we were fishing. It didn't take long for you to start picking everyone's brains trying to piece that top secret information together. I remember the first time we won on Barren River, we pulled up on a spot started catching some quality fish. About a half hour later Jimmy came around the bend we didn't know that he was in the same area. All of us went to the weigh in smiling from ear to ear. Richie couldn't believe it. He was beat by the guys he taught. He was so proud of us. We didn't have to brag, he did it all for us. He let all the guys know we were in the game. I think that is when everyone starting calling us The Baker Bunch. It is going to be really hard without you around. I know your family is going to miss you. You guys were so close I loved going over there, I felt right at home. Michelle would get jealous when we would go on our outdoor adventures but she always let it go because she knew how much you meant to me. I don't know what Kim is going to do without you. I know she meant the world to you - just keep a close eye on her. Schabell said "Everything was black and white with Nate - right or wrong - no middleground. To Nathan Seiter you were "soft" or a sissy. He admired the tough guys." I hope you don't think I am a sissy now. I am sure you saw the tears rolling down my cheeks. You are probably laughing at me because you finally got me to crack. I love you! Ryan Shelton |
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| If you want to know my prespective about Nathan. I must say, working with him for almost three years, It wasn't the basketball player, or the hunter or even the fisherman. It was the joker, the politian, the person that he was. Nathan and I didn't always see eye to eye, and many times he'd get me going and so ticked at him I could spit nails. I know that sometimes, I'd get to him as well. Yet by the end of the night, everything was understood that was in fun. Soon after I transfered departments, I'd see him in passing and we'd just say hey, and find out was new. Dispite the fact that I am a naturalist, and really could care less about hunting or fishing, my love for the outdoors, always compelled me to asked him about his tournaments or if he'd killed anything yet. When I'd found out both of us had received jobs respectively with DHL's Brokerage Department, I was so looking forward to working with him again, I look over now at the cubical across from me as a solemn quite meloncoly creeps through me. I must say this, Nathan and I had alot in common, yet we were quite different in so many way. Really, it was our differences that kept things not only interesting, always gave us something to talk about. Nathan was a contender and love to compete, where I myself am laid back and could care less about a challenge unless it is a self challenge. Some things we'd disagree on which would lead more or less to utter frustation, both trying to convince the other based upon opinion or ideas. Yet, that's why I liked him. He was a good guy. Seeing Him and Kim together reminded me of my own relationship with the love of my life. They were truly happy together and I can only imagation what must be going through her head with every waking moment. Please don't misinterpret this as a compairson of Nathan and myself. My sole intention is only to put things into perspective. DHL has lost a great asset to our team and company. As well as friend to all. A fellow graduate of the Class of '98 (Western Hills High School Also the Mustangs) and co-worker, Randal D Sumner Jr. |
| Nate, The past couple of days I've been looking back at our high school yearbooks, laughing hysterically. I'm not sure who looked worse, you with your spiky flat-top or me with my thick bangs. Every year you would pretty much write the same thing: "Pinky, you are a great friend. We've shared some funny times together... blah, blah, blah... You know I'm huge, You want me, When are you going to go out with me? Nice Ass!" Back then, I would laugh and roll my eyes. But in all honesty, you were right! Now 6 years later out of high school, every time we would get together, we'd tease each other about what's getting bigger. Your stomach (tuber) or my ass! Haha! It's funny how we changed! Nate, you will always hold a special place in my heart. What I will miss most are your hugs and that unforgettable laugh. You always put a smile on my face. Although I'm crying now, the memories of our friendship will make me smile for a lifetime. You will not be forgotten. I love you now, always and forever! Love ya, Heather Keller Trauth ('Pinky') |
| Nathan, Where do I begin, I have not only lost my baby cousin but also a friend. I think the words that I have seen written say it all, it wasn't just your family that thought you were great, everyone who knew you thought the same thing. Your smile and your laughter is what I'll never forget, it was infectious! I'll always remember the great times we had together, the nights "out on the town" with Jimmy, Jason and Ryan. It was an amazing adventure knowing you from the time you were just a baby until the end. To think that just a couple of days ago at Thanksgiving we were sitting around talking about your job, school and the fact that you were going to start looking at houses to buy in the near future and now I won't get to see that dream come to fruition. I know you loved your family, loved Kim with all your heart and cherished your friends and that is what makes you great Nathan. The sports, hunting and fishing stuff is nice but its your personality, character and love for life that made you who you really were and the person that we all love! Look over your Mom, Dad, Justin, Jess, Brad and Kim. I love you Nathan and will miss you terribly. Love, Shannon Haubner |
| I not only had the privilege of playing basketball with Nathan for two years, but also being his friend for so many more. There are too many basketball stories to relate, too many Saturday morning hunts to tell about, and too many good times had with Nathan to recount. Our thoughts and prayers are with Dave, Irmgard, Justin, Jessica, and Brad. We will love him dearly always, Chris and Jill Lloyd |
| OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO THE WHOLE SEITER FAMILY. RICK DUNN & VICKIE GUBSER |
| Nate, I have put off writing this because I could not find the perfect words to say. I have found out there are no perfect words. I did not really get to know you until five years ago when I became part of the Brossart pragram. In those five years there is not one bad memory I can recall.(Unless taking the top off of a rental van in a parking garage in Chicago is) I remember the golf trip to Tenn. where Teddy hit one so far right he almost hit the roofer on the house you could barely see. I remember calling your house and your dad even called you "tuber". Who could forget the "toad baseball" tournaments,(which you always wanted to draw me because I was horrible) the madden football games where we had to ban the chiefs because you would beat everybody, and the all night card games when Angie would bring us donuts home. I am surprised Bob and Angie did not have to buy a new couch because you wore theirs out. I think you slept on it more than they sat on it. I will never forget having to light candles, open a window, or turning on a fan for Monday night football because lets just say you always left your mark. I will never forget your smile, your laugh, and most of all the great friendship we developed. Kim and all of Nathans family are in my prayers. Love always, Jamie, Krista, and Garrett Schoulties |
| May God Bless the Seiter family, you are in our prayers. Nathan wil be greatly missed Dan, Becky, and Jena Quinn |
| Nathan, Looking back, the time I knew you best was when you and Ryan played basketball together. How fortunate I was to have had the opportunity to really know you and spend time with you. Remember the Pendleton game, where we all had to leave due to high waters? You came home with us (as you did many times after a game). You know it’s funny, I can’t remember the game (although I am sure you played great), but I remember the conversation and the laughs all the way home. There were so many laughs when you were around. There were so many amazing games, but it wasn’t the games I remember. I remember your face as you played. I remember the concentration on your face. The excitement after a well deserved victory. I remember your drive, determination and talent. I remember how you congratulated every member of your team and your opponent for a game well played. I remember sitting in the stands and overhearing fans saying “how many points has that Seiter kidscored?” I remember how the families all waited around for you to come out of the locker room and how you would discuss the plays with your dad, what went well, what didn’t – in order to make your game better. I remember the way you were so excited meeting the fans and families when you got off the bus from an away game. I remember how you got everyone in the gym fired up for a big win. I remember your smile after a win. Nathan, I remember – I will always remember you. There are so many wonderful things to remember about you, but I think the most important memory is the memory of love. You loved much and were loved by many. There were so many people who loved you, most importantly your family. Dave and Imgard, there are no words of comfort I can offer you, all I can do is thank you for raising such a fine man, someone who in his short life has touched the lives of all those around him. We were all truly blessed to of have him in our lives. We have our memories. You have my prayers. Justin, Jessica and Brad, take care of each other. Take care of your parents. Nathan will be taking care of and watching over you. Kim – Nathan’s love will be with you always. I am so sorry for your loss. Love, Shannon Horan Schumacher |
| Nathan, It has taken me days to figure out what I could possibly say that someone else has not already covered. You were so special to so many people, because you always made each and every person you knew feel special. For the better part of five long years, we were together practically night and day. You were my everything, my heart, the man I was in love with. We shared so many memories, some others may remember like our New Year's Eve spent in Indianapolis, but most, they will not. And that is okay, because they were special to us and I will continue to hold each and every one of them so very close to my heart. I will never forget the times we would go fishing in the dark....and getting stuck out there in the middle of the night and your dad having to come rescue us. I could go on forever, as I am sure everyone who knew you could. We were so young, and we both came to realize that we needed to go our seperate ways. We still cared about one another, but we knew that it was time to let go. The great thing about it was that we were still able to be friends. I wasn't sure that I would find love after us, but eventually I did. I found someone who makes me happy. I used to pray every night that you would do the same...all I have ever wanted was for you to be happy and to be with someone who made you happy. The day that you first came to tell me about you and Kim was bittersweet. I was so happy for you and I was happy for her, because she had found a good one in you. That is when I knew it was finally time to close that chapter in our lives. You are the best friend that anyone can ever have. I thank God everyday that he let me be a part of your life. You have helped to make me the person that I am today. I will love you forever and I will miss you terribly. Though my heart in breaking in a million pieces, I know that you are in a better place. While we have all lost so much in your death, you have gained an eternity, and in the end, that is what life is all about. David&Irmgard--Thank you so much for sharing him with me. I know he was frustrating at times but, we all loved him so very much. All of these wonderful things people are saying about your son is a reflection on you. You are wonderful parents who have shaped the man that everyone was so touched by. Be proud of that and know that he loved you. You are very special people that will always have a place in my heart. Justin--You were always such a good brother. Nathan used to tell me all the time how proud he was of you. Take care of Jessica and Bradley, they will need you. But don't forget yourself. It is okay to be sad and miss him, we all do. Jessica--What a sweetie you are. I know Nate used to give you such a hard way to go, but you were his only sister, he had no choice! :) He loved you so much (and Jess, he does know how much you loved him, trust me). Bradley--You were Nathan's pride and joy. You were the baby and you would think by the way he used to talk about you that you were his own son. You have grown up so much! You remind me so much of him. Thank you for being like a second little brother to me. You and Adam used to have such a good time together and I know that those days meant the world to him. Stay as kind as you are. Kim--Although I have never had the privilage of meeting you, my heart goes out to you. I know that Nathan will be watching over you and I know that he loved you so much. I hope that you can find peace. Love Always and Forver, until we meet again, Jennifer (Moore) Kelley |
| Who’s your boyfriend? Nate’s my boyfriend! And without hesitation when asked, that would be the response from my niece, Megan, since the time she could talk. And though she is only four years old, she did realize she shared him with another special person, Kim. But that was OK with her though, because each time he walked through her back door to visit, he took time to spend with her. And those memories will be with her always, thanks Nate. I met Nathan through my sister and brother-in-law (Pam and Kevin), so I only knew Nathan the kind hearted person, the one who smiled with his eyes - not only his mouth, the hunter, the fisherman, and card player. I knew he played softball with my bother-in-law, but had no idea of his basketball abilities. Which that in itself says something for the man, even though as you can see from many of the above tributes, he was a person who could have had much to brag about, but never did. I know he will be sadly missed by my sister’s family, and so many others, but please continue to talk to him, he will be waiting to hear from you. God, you have blessed Nathan; now please continue to bless his family, friends and especially Kim who will miss him everyday. Kim Nadler |
| When I first became friends with Brad i saw Nathan at his house and I didnt say much to him. When I finally did start talking to him it came to me that this guy was really funny and nice to talk to about basketball and the way things were at BBHS in the past years. When I visited the Seiters at there house there were many people there and it showed me just how much people loved him and cared for him. I'd espically like to pray for Brad and the Seiter family. Michael Collins |
| We all love you and miss you so much! Kim would come home all the time and tell me all these crazy stories about you all. When I met you, you were more than I had expected. I loved being around you because you always made me laugh and smile. Thanks for all your advice even though there's no such thing as carpet dye... You always told me about your family and Brad, I always knew you had the perfect family. To me you're an angel that was sent to us and touched everyone in our family and now I believe there really is a such thing as the perfect guy. Stacy Fabre |
| Nate, It hardly seems that this could have happened. It doesn't seem fair. Even though we both found the love of our lives, I still remember making the "pact" in high school saying that we would get married if we had not met anyone before we were 30. It never crossed my mind that one of us would not make it to 30. Last night, some of our friends got together to look at pictures from all of our great high school memories. We had a lot of good laughs and a few tears. There are so many great memories that we will never forget. Nate, you were my best friend. I missed the times we spent together but I will never forget. You are going to be greatly missed. My heart goes out to your family and to Kim - they are all in my prayers. I know that you are in a better place. Evan told me not to be sad - 'cause I will see you again someday. It's amazing how insightful a 5 year old can be. The best part is - he's right. We will all be together again someday...Until then Nikki |
| God blessed us with Nathan, he truly was an Angel sent from above, even if it was for far too brief. Anyone who knew him could not help but like him....He was the type of person that made your day just by a smile. Not only was he a friend, an athlete, but most of all a role model to more people than he would ever know. We are all hurting right now, but let us think of how much better we are to have known, love, and had Nathan in our lives. I was never more proud to cheer for Nathan and the team he led both on and off the court. Sneaking to the back of the bus on road trips just wouldn't be the same without him now!! My love and deepest sympathy goes out to the entire Seiter family, but Nathan will always have a special place in our hearts. I love ya Nate Dog! Michelle Twehues |
| Nate, You have always been the BRIGHTEST star! Your smile & attitude would light up any & every room. Nate you are like a brother to me. You are one of a kind and people like you are hard to come by. You have a special place in many people's hearts, especially Ryan's. You both have a love for the outdoors. Whether it was fishing or hunting you two always seemed to come home with something, even if it was just a story! You & Ryan were such a great team. You spent your last days doing what you loved most with the people you loved most. Friday & Saturday you were hunting & fishing with Ryan. Sunday you were helping your family. And of course throughout the weekend you were spending time with the love of your life - Kim. You were such a family man and you always kept your priorities straight. You were honored in so many ways throughout your life, but you are honored more now than ever. It is so hard to see someone so special have to leave especially this soon. You will always have a place in my heart & will never be forgotten. David, Irmgard, Justin, Jessica, Brad, Kim & Ryan I hope you all find peace within your hearts. Just remember all the quality time you got to spend with Nathan who is very special to so many people. Before I lay down at night I look for the BRIGHTEST star & watch it twinkle (probably because of the tears) just to know you are still here, just in a better place where we will meet again! I MISS YOU NATE!! Love, Susan Shelton P.S. I know you will still be the Best Man at Ryan & Michelle's wedding! |
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